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Alice Eagly, the renowned psychology researcher, has long argued that patterned differences in behavior between the sexes are not shaped by evolution, but by the differences in social roles.Social roles over time produce differences in abilities, expectations, and opportunities, which are then mistakenly perceived as innate and natural.
Pornography’s vision of sex has usurped real world sex in young people's consciousness and imagination.Still, many see the cougar phenomenon as unnatural, in part because it appears to violate the basic tenets of evolution, by which men are supposed to like younger women because of their fertility while women are expected to prefer older, high-status men, better equipped to provide for the offspring.But biological logic is notoriously ill-equipped to explain social behavior.The classic wife narrative (find a husband, have children, raise them, then go knit in the rocking chair) is all but extinct.
Those with money, knowledge, social freedom, and confidence can realize broader aspirations, and shape their own paths regardless of their gender.In the real world, most women need proper clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm. In real sex, however, partners often enjoy touching each other all over their bodies, before, during, and after genital contact.In porn, all women crave deep, choking, and gagging oral sex, and can’t wait to swallow the male’s ejaculate. In porn, all the women scream and squeal with delight constantly.Others point to increased, rather than decreased, opportunities.