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This seems somewhat analogous to a recent CMV post about people with disabilities (e.g. The OP said they felt that a person should have put that they use a wheelchair on their dating profile.The consensus in the comments though seemed to be that a person in a wheelchair shouldn’t HAVE to disclose that about themselves in their dating profile, just as there are many other things a person might not put front and center due to any number of reasons.Should we create separate categories for people who have autism or learning disabilities? Besides, isn’t that kind of the premise of dating sites to begin with, that the pool is diverse?They are still around, not because failed dates / matches don’t happen, but because of the possibility of finding someone who likes you for who you are, whatever that may be.I mean, something like that would basically put an expiration date on the relationship.I'd be fine with being a FWB with someone who's sterile, but I'd want to keep myself open to meet someone who isn't.Personally, I would encourage trans people to be up front simply for their own safety, but I don’t see why they should have to wear that info like a banner any more than someone in a wheelchair should have to put that front and center on their dating profile.
By that logic, we should have no filters at all - and you should just see everyone with no filters at all, which would be a miserable user experience no one would use.My profiles say that I don't do trans people or homosexuals, but not everyone reads, and a rare few have even perceived that as a challenge. Still: I'd like a filter for when I'm browsing to automatically filter out trans people.So if you’re attracted and suddenly lose interest because the person is trans it’s their fault or the dating websites fault?I don't want to debate the legitimacy of transgenderism as that's not what I'm here about and my opinions are not likely to change in that regard.
I'm open to discussing the why's and why not's, my view could be changed by a reasonable explanation of why dating sites shouldn't function this way.There are plenty of women who aren't transgendered and wouldn't be able to reproduce with you.You would not be able to filter out women who fall into this category with some sort of transgender indicator.You might even argue that they are major factors for MOST people. My point is: there are loads of factors that someone might consider “major” when it comes to date-ability.